Are you depressed with your ongoing circumstances?
I believe that we should wake up with a dream, not by a dream. Life gives us a lot of chances to change, but we do not want to change.
Sometimes, we ignore the opportunity with a confused state of mind and with a lot of discouraging thoughts like, “IS THIS REALLY FOR ME?” OR “AM I ABLE TO DO THIS?” OR “IS IT THE RIGHT TIME TO DO THIS?” blah blah… Afterwards thinking about all these crap, what we all do except to blame our destiny? Ya, Nothing! Stop questioning yourself gear up with all you have.
“Oh, man!! That wasn’t even written for me or in my destiny”.
So, yes maybe not everything is pre-written. Maybe God wants us to explore his best creation, “Human Being.” There are many ways to cope with your insecurities. Therefore, it is better to retrieve than to blame your destiny for your every move.
How To Stop Blaming Your Destiny?
Try hard, try to do your best that in the end no one left to blame! Your struggle may not be successful in providing you with what you need. But for sure, it leads you to where you belong. What actual waiting for you.
Sometimes, people engage themselves in false things. Meanwhile, their destiny holds something precious for them. There is a certain time for every happening in life. You just need to take your steps consciously.
Things That Help You In Retrieving Your Destiny
Believe In Yourself
Whatever you want to do in your life, you need to believe that you can do this. You can even fade your incompetency with your confidence. No one will be going to believe you in starting, and you need to start from yourself! You may say that “self-believe is the key to every door in your life.”
Try to support yourself while many people out there just to make you feel down. Self-appreciation wouldn’t cause you any harm but just boost up your strength and helps you to ignore negative comments.
In the way of retrieving destiny, you will face many hurdles. People will mock you for what you need or for your belief and might be the circumstances that will make you feel lost. You just need to keep yourself calm and be strong.
Train Yourself To Wait
It is essential to train yourself to wait. Make your aim as the purpose of your life, not an exam and then rush to finish it nor are you in any race! Give yourself the same importance as you expect from yourself. Embrace your journey and wait patiently to see the fruit of your planted seed.
People often think, what do they need in their lives. It is due to their shuttered minds. If you want to chase something, the very first thing that you need to do is to stay focused. You can’t change your mind daily. In this way, you will end up losing yourself. Forget about destiny!
Open Up To Life
Life always has something miraculous for you. Opening up towards it will lead you to an unstoppable journey. As we say, “every day is a new day,” there’s no ending until you alive. Ready to explore what life has concealed and try to make it a part of your destiny.
Don’t wait for anything to come to your way, but start to make way for it! Many people are there who worked in irrelevant fields, and now they are billionaires. You never know what will happen next. What you can do is just to try for everything that you want to be a part of your destiny.
Enjoy With What You Have
May be you are not happy with your life. Cursing yourself, complaining God, “why it happens to me.” Although many people even dream of having a life like you! Yes, it is true!!
Firstly, it is vital to stay happy with what you have then started to think about future endeavours.
While retrieving destiny, it is necessary to consider yourself and your needs only. If you start to compare yourself with a person that has all the luxurious stuff at his doorstep, then you will indulge yourself in a false trail. You need to feel prosperous with whatever you have.
Destiny has multiple routes to retrieve it. You need to fetch your path, listen to your thoughts, mark your desires, priorities yourself, and carry on your journey until you end up with something worthy. Just one thing that you need to keep in mind that life is not only about getting rich, famous, or successful. May be your destiny has something bigger for you.
Maybe you are born with a great purpose, maybe you have long roads to go and yet you are unaware of it. In the way of retrieving your destiny, you will find many reasons for your failure in a past life that is no more failure in your life because you are on the right path from where you truly belong.